Robert Carter writes to his grandson, Lewis Burwell, then in England at school, December 18, 1727, to chide him for an unpleasant letter Burwell had written to his mother, and directing him to write an apologetic letter to his mother. Carter notes that he had opposed his daughter's second marriage, but her new husband "proves a very worthy kind husband to her" and that he and his daughter are reconciled. He informs Burwell that he is to be sent to Cambridge in the spring where he is to keep his expenses low and to study hard. He concludes with family news and his blessing.
Some time ago I received a letter from you to which
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f I remember right I sent you an Answer the next you send
I will hope will
be in a more Acceptable Style and written in a better hand
[Your]
mother
had very much
rrying much against my inclination but it has been her good
fortune to match with a gentleman that proves a very worthy kind
husband to her and she and I are
perfectly reconciled it seems you have
written a very unkind letter to her which Occasioned a great deal of dis
turbance to her repose Certainly you have not forgot the duty you
owe to your parent and are not so unlearned to be ignorant of the seven
Curses denounced by the Almighty against undutiful Children pray
write to her in another style Acknowledge your fault and let her know
you are deeply Sorry for your youthfull imprudence in giving her
so much Uneasiness
I have written to Mr Perry
to send you to Cambridge next spring
and have Earnestly desired him to be as frugal as it is possible with de
cency in your Expenses and I lay the same charge upon you Tobacco is
at this time a very poor commodity and we have no other way to get
money by you have spent a great deal of money Already and your
improvement god knows very mean May you make a better use of
your time at the University I have been told from Several that have
been there £100 a year would maintain a youth tolerably well
if your Expences upon all Accounts exceed that sum £20 or £30
a year and no more
I shall not find fault
Your relations here are all in good health your
brother Carter
I Expect to keep his Christmas with me I pray god
Grant you may Escape the vices of the age you are coming into and that
after all the money that has been Spent upon your Education
you may prove a wise and good man to whose blessings I Commend
you who am